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17th November 2011

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chastewiddlesissy: femdomhotwifecuckoldinterracial: Probably the most common mistake that women make when they decide to introduce male orgasm control into their relationship is purchasing a chastity device for their man that is too large. What you want to do is measure his penis when it’s totally soft, basically when it’s the smallest it ever gets. Right out of a cold shower is the best time. For my hubby, that is just over 1 inch… basically, just the head of his penis. Then purchase a chastity device that is no more than a 1/2 inch larger than that. You want it to be nice and tight and snug to prevent him from getting an erection. If you get one that’s too big for him, he will still be able to get sort of half hard… and it will be very uncomfortable and even painful for him. Besides hurting his penis, his struggling penis will cause the ring around his balls to give him the very real and terrifying sensation that it’s about to rip his balls off. If in doubt, always go the next size smaller. I’ve purchased several different chastity devices for my hubby, starting with the CB-6000S, which I definitely recommend. It’s made of hard polycarbonate plastic and is perfect for when he has to travel and get through airport security metal detectors. But when he’s not traveling, I prefer the look and security of a stainless steel chastity device. I recommend the “Queen’s Keep” model from MatureMetal.com Hmmm … makes me seriously wonder if I need the CB-6000s rather than my trusty (and adored) CB-6000. The regular sized one is so comfortable during the day but those middle of the night erections are quite painful. Maybe the “S” would help on those nights when I get to wear my cagey to bed. It makes me laugh a bit when a former mistress of mine felt “The Curve” would be best for me, but I am a “grower” and it makes sense to size based on flaccid rather than erect measurements. I’ll have to bring this up to my Mommy … Mommy always knows what is best.

chastewiddlesissy:

femdomhotwifecuckoldinterracial:

Probably the most common mistake that women make when they decide to introduce male orgasm control into their relationship is purchasing a chastity device for their man that is too large.

What you want to do is measure his penis when it’s totally soft, basically when it’s the smallest it ever gets. Right out of a cold shower is the best time. For my hubby, that is just over 1 inch… basically, just the head of his penis.

Then purchase a chastity device that is no more than a 1/2 inch larger than that. You want it to be nice and tight and snug to prevent him from getting an erection. If you get one that’s too big for him, he will still be able to get sort of half hard… and it will be very uncomfortable and even painful for him. Besides hurting his penis, his struggling penis will cause the ring around his balls to give him the very real and terrifying sensation that it’s about to rip his balls off.

If in doubt, always go the next size smaller. I’ve purchased several different chastity devices for my hubby, starting with the CB-6000S, which I definitely recommend. It’s made of hard polycarbonate plastic and is perfect for when he has to travel and get through airport security metal detectors.

But when he’s not traveling, I prefer the look and security of a stainless steel chastity device. I recommend the “Queen’s Keep” model from MatureMetal.com

Hmmm … makes me seriously wonder if I need the CB-6000s rather than my trusty (and adored) CB-6000. The regular sized one is so comfortable during the day but those middle of the night erections are quite painful. Maybe the “S” would help on those nights when I get to wear my cagey to bed.

It makes me laugh a bit when a former mistress of mine felt “The Curve” would be best for me, but I am a “grower” and it makes sense to size based on flaccid rather than erect measurements.

I’ll have to bring this up to my Mommy … Mommy always knows what is best.

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